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Wednesday, March 7, 2007

Stuff...

Soo....

I'm back at the 9-5. I don't want to talk about it.

The tour was wonderful! I love that life man. The traveling, the meeting new and interesting people, the struggling, the ups and downs. It's just such a fun time. I already miss it. I really need to buckle down and figure out how I can make this thang happen..man. I need to get on it now before I accumulate more responsibilities that require me to stay in one place, like a husband, kids, a job. Performing, whether it be theatrical or musical is for me.

I got some stories to tell from that tour. That'll take more time than I have though. Be on the lookout!

My uncle said he would fund my demo. I need to get on the ball.

I have a myspace page too, now. It's very bootleg, but....whatever. Its amazing what you'll do to occupy yourself at your 9-5.
http://www.myspace.com/kceyzpage

So, I was reviewing some of my girls' blogs since I've been away for the past month or so. There was some talk about men and marriage. (If I knew how to do the link thing I would) Just wanna say, I feel your pain. Even though I am in a relationship the marriage thing is still....an issue. I had a discussion with my darling about my godbrother finally purposing to is girlfriend after 9 YEARS!
"Whats up with that?!" I asked....
he responds..."how old is he"
I say..."32"
Him: "That sounds about right"....
I'm like "WHAT?...ARE YOU SERIOUS?"
9 years people...that sounds good to him. So I begin to think. If 9 years sounds right to you...in 9 years you'll be.......................................................... 36 and Ill be..................................................32!
oh hell-to-the naw
I hate to talk about the age factor in regards to marriage, but its more about the time spent than it is about the age in which to get married. Why is it so hard to believe that you'll meet your life-mate at 23? Why do men and women (but mostly men) feel like that the age, the number of years spent on earth and not the number of years spen
Girls what do you think? We haven't had the marriage discussion yet, we haven't even done the I LOVE YOU thing yet. It's time for me to put some gas to this relationship. I need to stop being a punk and just start talking about all the stuff neither one of us wants to be the first to discuss. This is too much work.

I need to think.

3 Comments:

Blogger T.a.c.D said...

I mean for a dude its not the 9 years thing, it was probably more of the oh he is 32 years old, so that sounds about right...I have had this conversation with many a dude that thinks that the 20s are for funning and you settle down after you turn 30...

who knows...b/c I surely do NOT know...LOL

I would like to say...yea go ahead and put some gas into it...see what's up with it...there is nothing wrong with expressing yourself at least that way you know where you stand...and can move forward as you see fit...but again, at least you will know if you two are on the same page, kinda on the same page, or are on two totally different pages with a big whole piece in between the two of you...feel me?

Better out than in...so you can make the best decision for you...stay, go, give it time...whatever...

In due time, everything will come full circle...

March 8, 2007 at 12:00 PM

 
Blogger T.a.c.D said...

oh and glad you are back on this thang...LOL...

March 8, 2007 at 12:01 PM

 
Blogger jendayi said...

wow!!! =D

who is this?

you're right. it's not the age. men shouldn't say, 'i have to wait until i reach the age of so and so to get married'. it's about the relationship with your mate and the time spent together. if it's right, then it's right. no matter whether you're 23 or 32. dudes need to stop being so dag on selfish. thinking about themselves. i mean, you know you're lady doesn't want to be just chillin for 9 years! so either marry her or let her go! i really don't think that's fair, but maybe i'm too tied into this.

March 9, 2007 at 6:39 PM

 

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